tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post115404836438757928..comments2023-10-26T06:40:19.537-04:00Comments on Certainly Not Cool Enough To Blog: Tears for my boymsfitzitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17174138130763427353noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154211417893535882006-07-29T18:16:00.000-04:002006-07-29T18:16:00.000-04:00((((((HUGS))))))((((((HUGS))))))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154149604487899552006-07-29T01:06:00.000-04:002006-07-29T01:06:00.000-04:00Amazing. I was having a rough night.... a disagre...Amazing. I was having a rough night.... a disagreement w/a loved one that, like you, left me in tears and missing my little boy ever so much. So I went and posted on my blog, then thought I would read some posts from others. So I came to read yours and couldn't believe some of the things we wrote that were so similar. I had even written a line about every tear I cry being for Levi....... then I read your blog and you wrote about all your tears are for your Thomas. Perhaps our precious boys are playing together while their mommies are crying together.Lynnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01533629415887978633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154107215632185982006-07-28T13:20:00.000-04:002006-07-28T13:20:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry Kristin. I've been thinking a lot ab...I'm so sorry Kristin. I've been thinking a lot about this--what it will be like to be a very old lady and still miss my boy, too. It practically sends me into a panic attack. I just don't know if I can take another 50 years of this hurt. I hate this so much for all of us. ((hugs))Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07471420264228948843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154102543554195762006-07-28T12:02:00.000-04:002006-07-28T12:02:00.000-04:00I am sorry you had to cry again. I hope that the ...I am sorry you had to cry again. I hope that the tears eventually stop and the memories remain, without the pain. I truly don't know if that is possible but if my wishes have power then that is how it will work for you. <BR/><BR/>Know that many around the world are sending you hugs, here is a big one from Wisconsin.Shinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11233585920183280455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154097772615830792006-07-28T10:42:00.000-04:002006-07-28T10:42:00.000-04:00Yeah, that's pretty much how it is for me too. Th...Yeah, that's pretty much how it is for me too. The length of time between breakdowns gets longer, but i don't think they ever go away. And, i suppose, that is how it should be.<BR/><BR/>You know, after Nicolas died i wondered how i could make it one whole year, or two, or five. Yet really we have no choice, as you said. And the years pass....katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536809590856333391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154087610095235902006-07-28T07:53:00.000-04:002006-07-28T07:53:00.000-04:00God ... the words in your entry hit me like a truc...God ... the words in your entry hit me like a truck.<BR/><BR/>Just last week I discovered this new fear, and I wish it hadn't let my mind go wandering there. You're right though: 40 years <B>is</B> a long time to miss someone you love so dearly, and I wish so terribly much that you didn't have to think about things like that. (((HUGS)))Sherryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10334304440258785910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154059323539431832006-07-28T00:02:00.000-04:002006-07-28T00:02:00.000-04:00I am sending you huge hugs and when you get a chan...I am sending you huge hugs and when you get a chance and feel like seeing something that Zach said about T & R, come over to my blog and feel our hugs through the photos.Korihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15959643016903782117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154054084303500202006-07-27T22:34:00.000-04:002006-07-27T22:34:00.000-04:00i kept thinking it would get easier, but it never ...i kept thinking it would get easier, but it never does. it's different, but not easier. the woman with whom my mother-in-law banks told her the other day that she lost a child 30 years ago, and she broke down there in the bank. i don't think it ever ends, we just learn how to live with it, if we're lucky.laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12650967136734094216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9972140.post-1154050417187703982006-07-27T21:33:00.000-04:002006-07-27T21:33:00.000-04:00(((Hugs)))(((Hugs)))Lisa P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04048193493804649016noreply@blogger.com