It's not that My Beloved or I think think that Thomas wasn't the right baby for us and that he was returned to the gods because of it. He was the right child - he most definitely was, and we know there was a reason (or maybe a million reasons) for him coming to us and staying for 20 hours. And we're blessed and grateful for every second we had with him.
The "right" child My Beloved was referring to yesterday was the next right child. The second one.
Just had to clear that up. Because I'm neurotic and anal that way.